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Solitary women Welfare Institute for 20 years, married, autistic, introverted, has been considered mute original title: from autistic to love, get married, solitary daughter out of the welfare home, happy life, Tao and Wang Yan feelings very good, two people intend to have a child. Chief reporter Li Wenke photo Hualong February 22nd 8 newsletter (reporter correspondent She Zhenfang Qiu Lingli) from the introverted, the communication obstacles of orphaned girl Wang Yan (a pseudonym) living in the orphanage for 20 years, more than a month ago, she had 20 years old birthday, one to the legal age of marriage, waiting for two years fiance Yu Tao (a pseudonym) will take her back home. Recently, the reporter came along with the Chongqing Municipal Bureau of civil affairs, Chongqing second social welfare staff came to Dianjiang County crane Town, witnessed the happy life of Wang Yan after marriage. Teacher: just started her not Dali, I thought she was dumb in January 6th, but this is a good day tour Tao a carefully selected. The sixty year old Wang Sufang (a pseudonym) at a Wang Yan dressed in a suit and please son stood side by side with the crowed. In her view, Wang Yan is an orphan, although not love to speak, but it is a pure kind, worthy of pity good girl, she is also the ideal daughter-in-law. For this marriage, travel house three days of the feast. As Wang Yan’s "home" to two welfare homes for Wang Yan prepared dowry, four bed blanket, four bed four pieces and two thousand yuan gifts, and by the chief Qiu Lingli took a pedestrian to her relatives. Qiu Lingli recalled the mood of the day, as if watching his sister get married, happy, gratified, with a trace of abandon. In fact, Wang Yan always called her sister. She is also one of the few introverts who are willing to be close to Wang Yan. Wang Yan is an abandoned baby, grew up in Chongqing children’s welfare home, and turned into the two welfare home after 16 years old. In 2012 two, the welfare of the special education teacher Mao Zhaoxi first met Wang Yan. At that time, Wang Yan did not say a word throughout the day, quiet like sculpture, silently stay in their own corner, there is no friend around. No matter what others asked her questions, she doesn’t care, eyes looking straight at the sight, but with no reality whatever. "I thought she wasn’t born to speak." Mao Zhaoxi said. Mao Zhaoxi worked in the two welfare home for 12 years, and all kinds of children have seen it. Wang Yan didn’t talk, she insisted on interacting with her every day, asked her all kinds of simple questions, such as "did you eat?"" "Can you wash clothes?"" At first, Wang Yan didn’t care. Slowly, Wang Yan began to respond to questions that he was interested in, nodding or shaking his head. Later, in the form of special education classes, teach children some safety knowledge and knowledge of the way of getting along with people. Wang Yan is the first batch of students in the class. In the teacher’s efforts, with the buddies Wang Yan has changed slowly stay together morning and night. One day, in the class, the other little friends did not follow the teacher said, Wang Yan initiative said, "you’re wrong," Mao Zhaoxi surprised. Later, Wang Yan was getting closer to Liu Shunxian, another little friend. Liu Yi1

孤女福利院生活20年嫁人 自闭内向曾被以为哑巴   原标题:从自闭内向到恋爱嫁人 孤女走出福利院过上幸福生活 游涛和王燕感情很好,两人打算生个孩子。 首席记者 李文科 摄   华龙网2月22日8时讯(记者 佘振芳 通讯员 邱伶俐)从小性格内向、有交流障碍的孤女王燕(化名)在福利院生活了20年,一个多月前,她过完20岁生日,一到法定结婚年龄,苦等了两年的未婚夫游涛(化名)便将她娶回了家。近日,记者随同重庆市民政局、重庆市第二社会福利院的工作人员一同来到垫江县鹤游镇,见证了王燕婚后的幸福生活。   特教老师:刚开始她不大理人,我曾以为她是哑巴   1月6日,小寒,这是游涛一家精挑细选的好日子。六十岁的王素芳(化名)看着一身红嫁衣的王燕和身着西装的儿子并排站在一起,乐得合不拢嘴。在她看来,王燕是孤儿,虽然不爱说话,却是一个单纯善良、值得怜惜的好女孩,也是她心目中理想的儿媳妇。为了这门亲事,游家摆了三天的流水席。   作为王燕的“娘家”,市二福利院给王燕准备了陪嫁,四床铺盖、四套床品四件套和两千元礼金,并由科长邱伶俐带着一行人亲自送亲到婆家。   邱伶俐回忆起那天的心情,仿佛看着自己的妹妹出嫁一般,高兴、欣慰又带着一丝不舍。事实上,王燕一直都叫她姐姐。她也是内向的王燕为数不多愿意主动亲近的人之一。   王燕是一名弃婴,自幼在重庆市儿童福利院长大,年满16岁后转入了市二福利院。2012年,市二福利院的特教老师毛朝玺第一次见到王燕。那时候的王燕一整天也不说一句话,安静得就像雕塑,默默地待在属于自己的角落里,身边也没有任何朋友。无论别人问她什么问题,她都不理会,眼睛直直地看着人,视线却虚无缥缈。“我还以为她生来就不会说话。”毛朝玺说道。   毛朝玺在二福利院工作了12年,各种各样的孩子都见到过。王燕不主动说话,她就每天坚持与她互动,问她各种简单的问题,比如“你吃饭没有?”“你会不会洗衣服呀?”一开始,王燕并不理会。慢慢地,对于自己感兴趣的问题,王燕开始有了回应,会点头或者摇头。   后来,院里组成了专门的特教班,教孩子们一些安全知识以及待人接物的常识。王燕便是班上第一批学生。在老师的努力下,通过与小伙伴们的朝夕相处,王燕慢慢有了变化。有一天,在上课时,其他小伙伴没有按照老师说的来,王燕主动说道“你这样不对”,让毛朝玺大吃一惊。   后来,王燕渐渐与另一个小伙伴刘顺先走得近了。刘顺先是一名脑瘫患者,智力正常,但是腿脚不便。在与同伴的相处中,王燕学会了关心别人,她会主动帮刘顺先打饭,两人互动越来越多,变成了要好的闺蜜,经常在一起睡觉。   如今的王燕,在交流方面有了很大进步,面对记者时,依然不会主动开口说话,却会用眼神认真地看着人,甚至在相机面前露出了笑容。 王燕将在福利院时的留影收集在一起,有空就翻看,回忆“娘家”的生活。 首席记者 李文科 摄   丈夫:她不爱说话,对我来说是优点   王燕智力正常,理解能力强,动作协调能力也不错。市二福利院院长李彤一直在考虑,能否帮王燕找到新家庭,帮她回归社会,在社会中康复,过上正常女孩的生活。   事有凑巧,2014年,福利院的一名退休工作人员提起,自己亲戚家有一个男孩,目前在找对象。那个男孩就是游涛。   游涛当时26岁,在主城上班,福利院的工作人员对他本人及家庭背景进行了严格的调查和考察,认为小伙子老实本分,于是帮助他和王燕接触。   见到王燕的第一眼,游涛就觉得她是个好女孩。在别人眼中,不爱说话可能是缺点,但在游涛眼中,却是优点。于是,两人谈起了一段特殊的恋爱。   游涛时常趁休假来福利院看王燕,有时候给她买吃的,有时候给她带来新衣服。一开始,王燕有点害羞,但在游涛的耐心和坚持下,她慢慢地接纳了这个小伙子。因为王燕不能随意外出,不像其他情侣恋爱有逛街、看电影等各种节目,两人的相处安静却温馨。   在爱情的滋润下,王燕的性格越来越开朗。她喜欢上了跳舞,学会跳手语舞《感恩的心》,还加入了舞龙队,参加社区国庆节活动还获了奖。   交往了两年,2015年12月31日,王燕迎来了20岁生日,游涛和母亲王素芳一同带着蛋糕来福利院给王燕过生日,王燕脸上绽开了孩子似的笑容。没过几天,他们便领了结婚证,选定日子办了酒。 婆婆王素芳夸王燕是个好媳妇。 首席记者 李文科 摄   婆婆:王燕就像我女儿,又单纯又贴心   从福利院到婆家,生活有了一些变化。小两口结婚后,游涛回主城上班,家里便只剩下王燕和婆婆王素芳。王素芳怕媳妇刚来不习惯,每晚都陪她睡一张床。   在福利院时,有专门的工作人员照顾大家生活起居。在嫁人之前,王燕可以说没干过什么活,会做的家务就是用洗衣机洗衣服。于是,王素芳开始手把手地教她刷锅、洗碗、洗衣服等家务活。   “在我心中,王燕就像女儿一样,又单纯又贴心。”王素芳笑眯眯地说。有一天,王燕看着电视,忽然开口说:“买个洗衣机吧。”原来,王燕虽然不懂得太多人情世故,但婆婆天天忙里忙外,她都看在眼里,看到婆婆大冷天里手洗衣服,手上都裂了口子,她想着表达关心,买台洗衣机帮忙分担家务。   邻居们一开始得知王燕的身份,为王素芳捏了一把汗,担心婆媳相处不好,得知此事,纷纷向王素芳夸赞:“你这儿媳还真贴心啊。”王素芳也乐开了花,不到一个月,婆媳俩感情越来越好。王燕虽然还是有点内向,当着人的面喊不出,但背着人会喊王素芳“妈妈”。   “我现在最大的心愿,就是希望他俩能赶紧生个孙子,我来带!”听到婆婆这样说,王燕害羞地低下了头。临别时,市二福利院工作人员跟王燕开玩笑:“我们是来接你回院里的,你回不回去呀?”王燕一下子急了,一边闪躲一边喊道:“我不回去。”   得知此情此景,院长李彤既惊讶,又感到欣慰。李彤表示,福利院除了王燕,还有更多残疾人士,除了福利院的温暖和帮助,他们更需要社会的关心。通过与社会交流互动,才能更好架起康复之桥,帮助他们融入社会。 责任编辑:李天奕相关的主题文章: